Do you feel awful when you're trashing your flightmate(s)?

tronos wrote:

have u all have been beaten by a girl in your flight....my excuse is i am new to golf but can only use that excuse for so long...... even outdrive me for a few holes (her from the ladies tee of course)

u re talking abt katchiok issit???

It never really happen to me, dont understand how its feel. Tell me abt it.

tronos wrote:

have u all have been beaten by a girl in your flight....my excuse is i am new to golf but can only use that excuse for so long...... even outdrive me for a few holes (her from the ladies tee of course)

Yup. I've been beaten by a girl in my flight. There was once when I was playing some time ago. A girl about 15 was playing with us (following her Dad). She didn't hit far but straight as an arrow. No chance. Got whacked.

MC and I were put to shame by Choo TH's gf. Kicked our butts pretty good.

Doesnt matter, at least you can drive and arrive. Thats what matters most.

Oddly enough, the trash talking rules don't apply when it's a lady playing.

Get goreng / hackle at / laughed by friends are fine. I am a complete novice. Only played twice on the course. However I have observed 2 things:

1. If the person is better than me, ok, but not when the person giving it is equally bad at the game.

2. Some people can give but very bad at taking it.....

missmoon wrote:

tronos wrote:

have u all have been beaten by a girl in your flight....my excuse is i am new to golf but can only use that excuse for so long...... even outdrive me for a few holes (her from the ladies tee of course)

u re talking abt katchiok issit???

she is doing that...... bad karma

must donate more $$$$ to the charity

Technospaz wrote:

Just curious - everyone has a bad game every now and then. When you play with people who are down on their luck and are playing like they should be gardening instead, how do you feel? The more you watch them play, the more painful it gets and the more money you (may) make. What do you do?

1. Encourage, educate and inspire?
2. Enhance trash talk and go for the kill?

I guess the situation changes if everyone seems to be playing well but you are playing exceptionally well. In such situations, they can't fault anyone. So, would it be #2 here?

i do feel bad,

but next game.. i give more strokes without them asking for it.

sometimes i buy a nice cap for e.g taylor made.. . and do a white lie .. and tell them, i got them free and give it to them.

to me good buddies are like a gem. money takes 2nd place. and betting is necessary just to add fun and some challenges into the game.

ChrisD wrote:

S70B wrote:

Double the bets...

Who will double the bets with you....
Probably crazy or too much $$ perhaps

i would.


i bring my A game when i am playing against good players.

i dun know why. i always play much better when i play with super good players.

macam got auto switch.




for me.. losing to a much better player is better than losing to a lousier player.

aiyoh....Bro Choco......no wonder I see your A-game the other day........maybe just maybe becos I was playing...hehehehe

PS: After that game, I downgrade myself to the lowest level of beginner liao....infant beginner

Technospaz wrote:

Oddly enough, the trash talking rules don't apply when it's a lady playing.

that is because the guys were too busy watching the lady's butt?

Duval_S wrote:

aiyoh....Bro Choco......no wonder I see your A-game the other day........maybe just maybe becos I was playing...hehehehe

PS: After that game, I downgrade myself to the lowest level of beginner liao....infant beginner

if u see my A game... i think u asked for 4-4... min.

chocoman wrote:

Technospaz wrote:

Just curious - everyone has a bad game every now and then. When you play with people who are down on their luck and are playing like they should be gardening instead, how do you feel? The more you watch them play, the more painful it gets and the more money you (may) make. What do you do?

1. Encourage, educate and inspire?
2. Enhance trash talk and go for the kill?

I guess the situation changes if everyone seems to be playing well but you are playing exceptionally well. In such situations, they can't fault anyone. So, would it be #2 here?

i do feel bad,

but next game.. i give more strokes without them asking for it.

sometimes i buy a nice cap for e.g taylor made.. . and do a white lie .. and tell them, i got them free and give it to them.

to me good buddies are like a gem. money takes 2nd place. and betting is necessary just to add fun and some challenges into the game.

*sniff* You had me at hello

Technospaz wrote:

chocoman wrote:

Technospaz wrote:

Just curious - everyone has a bad game every now and then. When you play with people who are down on their luck and are playing like they should be gardening instead, how do you feel? The more you watch them play, the more painful it gets and the more money you (may) make. What do you do?

1. Encourage, educate and inspire?
2. Enhance trash talk and go for the kill?

I guess the situation changes if everyone seems to be playing well but you are playing exceptionally well. In such situations, they can't fault anyone. So, would it be #2 here?

i do feel bad,

but next game.. i give more strokes without them asking for it.

sometimes i buy a nice cap for e.g taylor made.. . and do a white lie .. and tell them, i got them free and give it to them.

to me good buddies are like a gem. money takes 2nd place. and betting is necessary just to add fun and some challenges into the game.

*sniff* You had me at hello

wat hello?

always in the receiving end...so not sure of what thrashing others feel...

but i do know tht not everyone at the receiving end might like to be advised.... so i still feel it's better to keep the comment or advice by themselves...
(imagine both abt the same standard but tht poor fella having an off day.... advice might be worse)
esp all of us are "non-pro" so what works for you might not work for others...


anyway, i prefer to bet with less serious players... as in able to joke during the game and not so serious...
play golf to enjoy mah...

same with me..

i usually try not to say anything..


dun wan to say wrong thing since fine line already grew thinner

I think you need to assess the situation.

- If your flightmate is furious with himself and cursing etc, there's no point teaching him. Rather, encourage him to cool down and take it easy. Don't ridicule.

- If your flightmate is a little upset and you can see what's wrong, perhaps consider offering some tips, e.g. less movement, your alignment is off etc. Don't comment on swing etc.

- If your flightmate asks for help, then offer help but again... don't go overboard. You may be just as wrong.

hmmmmm hopefully one day i can rch tht standard then maybe i can comment better on this.....

hmmm thrashing ppl in golf... seems so impossible...

Technospaz wrote:

I think you need to assess the situation.

- If your flightmate is furious with himself and cursing etc, there's no point teaching him. Rather, encourage him to cool down and take it easy. Don't ridicule.

- If your flightmate is a little upset and you can see what's wrong, perhaps consider offering some tips, e.g. less movement, your alignment is off etc. Don't comment on swing etc.

- If your flightmate asks for help, then offer help but again... don't go overboard. You may be just as wrong.

i like ur last statement.

unless i really know what i am saying... i wouldnt even think of opening my mouth.

u never how upset the fella is.,... inside with his own game. afterall.. i am not even close to a single handicapper.

Eh, tonite range on?

TS which range?

jaketang wrote:

TS which range?

Pelangi, JB.

Soz mate.

d'bali pub.. by stulang laut,.. say so la.

no need to shy one. we all males. here. got testerones to release,..


after that blue wave for one nice round of full body massage.

ON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!BRUDDDDDDDDDDEEEERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR

k loh.... i know i not worthy.....

sigh.....